This graphic illustrates what the lotus sex position looks like in actuality, and it also conveys how to do it. The partner with a strap-on or penis will be seated, positioning themselves on the bottom, while partner B sits facing them, with their legs criss-crossed over their partners. They will then insert themselves slowly to focus on a more intimate rocking and grinding motion.

The Lotus

I’m sure you’ve heard time and time again that sex doesn’t have to be all about prioritizing an orgasm… sometimes it’s important to be extremely present with your partner’s body…