This is a graphic portraying the lap dance position in action. Performed on a chair or seated position, the partner with a penis or strap on sits, while the receiver climbs on top and straddles/rides them.

The Lap Dance

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Just as the stars align in the vast space of the cosmos, so too can two souls in a breathtaking, intimate embrace – the “Lap Dance” sex position is intimacy and passion between two in its most purest, most authentic essence. If you’re into that deep, passionate, cosmic, intoxicating sex, this position might, ahem, hit the spot.

This is a graphic portraying the lap dance position in action. Performed on a chair or seated position, the partner with a penis or strap on sits, while the receiver climbs on top and straddles/rides them.

So, let’s get down to the details in this “Lap dance” position guide – how to do the lap dance sex position, what are its pros and cons, and are there any variations? And of course we’ll let you in on some tips to add some extra juice to the squeeze.

 

How to do the “Lap Dance” sex position:

The receiving partner with a penis or strap-on is seated on a chair, the giving partner climbs on top, straddles the receiving partner, allowing penetration. The giver can support their weight by having their feet on the floor (if they can reach) or by being on their tip toes, which can help them with their momentum as they’re riding their partner. The giver can ride their partner by moving their hips back and forth, in a grinding motion.

What are the pros of the “Lap Dance” position?

  • Deep eye-to-eye contact.
  • Intimacy with your partner.
  • The ability to easily make out.
  • Receiver’s hands are completely free for stimulation of erogenous areas; neck, head, face, nipples, clitoris, etc.

What are the cons of the “Lap Dance” position?

  • There’s a potential for struggle in momentum depending on body sizes.
  • There’s a potential for giver to have an inability to support themselves through their legs due to height differences.

What are some tips for the “Lap Dance” position?

  • The giver can place their hands on the receiver’s waist, shoulders or legs for support and stability.
  • The receiver can grip the givers hips to help with momentum.

What are the variations of this position?

  • The giver can place their heels on the chair/sofa in a squat position, changing between a bouncing up and down motion to grinding when their legs get tired.
  • Instead of using a chair/sofa, you can try this position on a bed or edge of the bed if reversed.
  • All variations can be reversed.