Hey friends. If you’ve made it here, you’re probably wanting to learn more about bondage. Bondage, often associated with sexual practices, is part of the broader realm of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism). For some, it’s about the visual and tactile enjoyment of Kinbaku — an art form of rope bondage, while others may appreciate the constant reminder of a partner’s presence and dynamic through wearing a day collar. Bondage, in sexual practices, involves the consensual use of restraints to enhance the body and the mind between partners. Let’s dive into what bondage is, what bondage looks like in practice, and the various BDSM toys and bondage gear commonly used.
What is Bondage?
Bondage can come in many forms, but for the most part it’s all about spicing things up by restricting a partner’s movement — usually for some added sexual thrill. This can involve using chains, cuffs, collars, ropes, and other fun BDSM toys. The level of restriction can range from light and playful, to more intense and immobilizing, depending on what you and your partner are into and what you both agree on.
It’s important to remember that everything is very consensual and very safe. Those engaging in bondage have thorough discussions beforehand to ensure everyone feels comfortable, trusted, and safe. This often can mean incorporating a safe word — a special word that, when spoken, means it’s time to pause or stop. Communication and consent is always at the forefront of any BDSM practice.
Bondage Techniques and Practices
- Shibari: Shibari, a Japanese style of rope bondage is known for its intricate and artistic ties. Shibari involves using ropes to tie and restrain a partner in various positions.
- Handcuffs and Restraints: This can involve using metal, velcro, or leather cuffs and restraints to bind your wrists, ankles, face, chest, legs, etc.
- Bondage Tape and Wraps: Specially designed tape that sticks to itself, but not to skin or hair, making it an easy and painless way to be restrained.
- Spreader Bars: Spreader bars are rigid bars that come in a variety of lengths that are designed to keep arms or legs apart, restricting movement and creating a sense of vulnerability.
- Bondage Furniture: Items like the Kneeling Bench by Total Power Xchange, “The Rib Cage” by After Dark Design Shop, or the Ishidaki Board by LVX Supply & Co. are designed to keep you in various positions for physical and emotional enhancements during play.
BDSM Toys and Bondage Gear
- Blindfolds: Blindfolds like these, are using to deprive one’s sense of sight, which can heighten other senses and increase anticipation.
- Gags: Gags restrict your ability to speak — adding an element of power exchange and vulnerability. The Crafty Hedonist designed a “Gag on It Mount” that seamlessly snaps onto one of their specially crafted dildo gags.
- Collars and Leashes: Often used in a Dominance and Submissive dynamic between partners, collars and leashes can add elements of power play, ownership, and control.
- Floggers and Whips: While these toys are not designed to restrain, floggers, whips, paddles, and canes can be used for impact play during a “bondage experience”; adding another layer of sensation for those who like to incorporate elements of consensual pain. Some thuddy paddles, like this one sold by Kinkerlitzchen is made with steel studs — perfect for those who enjoy heavy bruising, which ties heavily into the Dom/Sub dynamic between partners.
- Clamps and Clips: Nipple clamps, clitoral clamps, penis clamps and clips, and other sensory enhancers can be used to add pleasurable pain and enhance sensitivity. These clamps and clips normally don’t require a piercing, and can come in a variety of designs like Why Bee Normals “Daddy’s Little Girl” clitoral clip — the perfect accessory for those who enjoy the DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) dynamic.
Whether you’re new to bondage, a seasoned pro, or just curious, there are countless ways to safely and consensually explore this aspect of BDSM. Communication, consent, and safety are the cornerstone of any successful and enjoyable BDSM experience.
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