Category: Sex Positions

If you’ve been hearing all the recent hype and buzz regarding the “Amazon” sex position, but you don’t know what it is – you’ve come to the right place my friend. This is the ultimate How To: Amazon Sex Position Guide that’ll give you everything you need to know about this position – what is the amazon sex position? How do you do the amazon sex position? What are its pros and cons and are there any tips to make it feel even better?

If you’ve been itching to add some extra spice to your love life – you’re in for a treat.

How To Do The “Amazon” Sex Position: 

The “Amazon” sex position is essentially missionary in reverse. Rather than having the person with the vagina or anus lay on their back, the position has you reversed. The person with the penis or strap-on lays on their back, and depending on their level of flexibility they can either have their legs up in a 90 degree angle, or up over their head with their legs pulled to their chest. The person with the vagina or anus straddles or squats above them, allowing penetration, with their knees resting beside them as seen in the graphic above.

Once the partner on top has gotten into position, they can start riding by bouncing, bobbing up and down, rather than focusing on grinding.

“Amazon” Sex Position Pros:

• Eye-to-eye contact.
• Power-play (if you’re into that).
• Nipple play!
• Potential for mutual orgasm if the person on top is being stimulated to their preference (vaginal, clitoral, g-spot, nipple).
• Allows for deep penetration.
• The person on top can control the depth, speed, rhythm.

“Amazon” Sex Position Cons:

• Maintaining the position can be difficult for both people if flexibility and stamina is an issue.
• The person on top needs stamina.
• The person on the bottom needs flexibility.
• The person on top could hurt their knees if they lack the mobility.

“Amazon” Sex Position Tips:

• The person on top can rest their hands on the person on the bottoms chest or knees for support.
• The person on the bottom can spread their legs widely or keep them closer together depending on the variation that works best with their level of flexibility and comfort.
• The person laying down can support their legs by gripping behind their knees or holding onto their calves.
• The person on the bottom can lift and support the person on top – again, flexibility!
• If the person on top leans forward, it puts less stress on the suspensory ligament that supports the penis in staying erect.
• For anal penetration, put a pillow under the hips to elevate the body  higher for deeper penetration.

“Amazon” Sex Position Variations:

• The person on top can have their knees on the bed, to the side of the partner, straddling them, bouncing up and down.
• The person on top can squat above the partner, with their feet besides the partners legs.
• The person on top can squat reversed, holding onto their partner’s shins for support as they bounce up and down.

If you’ve done the Amazon position before, or are giving it a go for the first time — drop those juicy deets! We want to hear from you.

A jackhammer is a heavy-duty motorized tool that breaks apart hard materials, repeatedly striking a chisel or bit with high force to demolish surfaces quickly.

So why would this sex position be called the “Jackhammer”? Well my friends, it’s as straightforward as it sounds… your holes get absolutely hammered with. Ahem. A dick. Now, I know what you’re thinking, how could this be pleasurable…. Well, here’s the tl;dr:  some of us are absolutely, positively, head-over-heels into seriously intense, deep, hard, sex.

If you’re into that slow burn, the deep connection, eye-gazing – that intoxicating, passionate lovemaking, then the Jackhammer might not be your cup of tea – but let’s not forget that this too deserves its own spotlight.

 

Let’s get down to the nitty-gritty details: how do you do the “jackhammer” sex position? What are the pros and cons of the “jackhammer” position, and are there any variations? This is the ultimate “jackhammer” position guide and we’ll cover everything you need to know!

How to do the “Jackhammer” sex position:

Without a doubt, the “Jackhammer” sex position calls for a lot of flexibility and abdominal strength from the receiver – but we have tips and variations that can help! The receiver lays on their back, and then lifts their hips/lower back with their hands, supporting their torso and raising their legs back and over their head… Similar to if you were doing pulse ups to work your abs. The giver then positions themselves over the receiver, in a squatting motion and penetrates them vaginally or anally.

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What are the pros of the “Jackhammer” sex position?

• Give your partner a good look at your “goods”.
• Eye-contact depending on how you’re positioned.
• Deep vaginal or anal penetration.
• The giver can easily control the speed, depth and rhythm.
• The angle allows you to get all the “hard-to-reach” spots.

What are the cons of the “Jackhammer” sex position?

• The position requires a level of flexibility from the receiver.
• The position requires a level of abdominal strength from the receiver.
• The receiver could feel blood rush to their head due to their legs being in the air.

What are some tips for the “Jackhammer” position?

• The receiver can be supported in maintaining their position from the giver if they place their hands on the receivers legs (pushing them down into position) – the givers weight is also then supported, win-win situation!
• This position has the reputation of being extremely aggressive, but the giver can easily control the speed, depth, and rhythm – communicate with your sexual partner!

What are some variations for the “Jackhammer” position?

• The receiver can spread their legs out wide instead of having them raised over their head like in the graphic.
• The receiver can pull legs up close to their chest (with enough space for penetration), giver can squat over them and support their weight by placing their hands on the receivers shins.

 

Loved yet hated by many. If you’ve ever attempted this position — is the juice worth the squeeze? Drop those details.

Just as the stars align in the vast space of the cosmos, so too can two souls in a breathtaking, intimate embrace – the “Lap Dance” sex position is intimacy and passion between two in its most purest, most authentic essence. If you’re into that deep, passionate, cosmic, intoxicating sex, this position might, ahem, hit the spot.

So, let’s get down to the details in this “Lap dance” position guide – how to do the lap dance sex position, what are its pros and cons, and are there any variations? And of course we’ll let you in on some tips to add some extra juice to the squeeze.

 

How to do the “Lap Dance” sex position:

The receiving partner with a penis or strap-on is seated on a chair, the giving partner climbs on top, straddles the receiving partner, allowing penetration. The giver can support their weight by having their feet on the floor (if they can reach) or by being on their tip toes, which can help them with their momentum as they’re riding their partner. The giver can ride their partner by moving their hips back and forth, in a grinding motion.

What are the pros of the “Lap Dance” position?

• Deep eye-to-eye contact.
• Intimacy with your partner.
• The ability to easily make out.
• Receiver’s hands are completely free for stimulation of erogenous areas; neck, head, face, nipples, clitoris, etc.

What are the cons of the “Lap Dance” position?

• There’s a potential for struggle in momentum depending on body sizes.
• There’s a potential for giver to have an inability to support themselves through their legs due to height differences.

What are some tips for the “Lap Dance” position?

• The giver can place their hands on the receiver’s waist, shoulders or legs for support and stability.
• The receiver can grip the givers hips to help with momentum.

What are the variations of this position?

• The giver can place their heels on the chair/sofa in a squat position, changing between a bouncing up and down motion to grinding when their legs get tired.
• Instead of using a chair/sofa, you can try this position on a bed or edge of the bed if reversed.
• All variations can be reversed.

We heard you’ve been looking to spice up your sex life. You came across “The Amazon“, but acrobatics and sex don’t really go hand in hand for you – which is fair. Well, you’ve come across the right position… This one is simple, but it truly hits the spot – heh.

Let’s begin – our guide to “The Chairman” sex position should give you all the information you need to know; what are its pros and cons? Are there any variations to this position?

How to do “The Chairman” Sex Position:

The position is exactly what it sounds like – the penis or strap-on owner sits on the chair or side of the bed. The giver will then position themselves on top, facing away from the receiver, with the receiver’s leg in between their own. The giver will then squat or bounce up and down, allowing vaginal or anal penetration.

What Are The Pros of “The Chairman” Position?

• Hands are free, allowing for stimulation of erogenous zones; clitoris, nipples, balls.
• Allows for both g-spot and clitorial stimulation.
• The ability to incorporate toys easily.
• You can easily modify the position to different angles and movements to bring new sensations.
• Doesn’t require much flexibility.
• Allows for deep vaginal or anal penetration.

What are the cons of “The Chairman” Position?

• May require a level of stamina and strength from the giver to maintain the position for extended periods of time.

What are some variations to “The Chairman” Position?

• Experiment with the receivers legs in between the givers legs vs. outside of the givers legs.
• The giver can sit at at different angles to allow different sensations.
• The receiver can lay down completely, instead of being in a sitting position.

What are some tips?

• The receiver can support the giver in maintaining the position by holding their helps and helping them rock into motion.
• The giver can change the way they ride by squatting up and down, bouncing, rocking their pelvis back and forth or grinding.

 

I’m sure you’ve heard time and time again that sex doesn’t have to be all about prioritizing an orgasm… sometimes it’s important to be extremely present with your partner’s body and pleasure, feeling the depths of your connection as you’re engaging in the most deep, passionate and intimate sex.

 

This position is all about tantric sex – the idea of merging the physical with the non-physical, almost allowing yourselves to feel like you’re traveling through time and space into different dimensions and realities. It’s about the bond and closeness, and expanding out your pleasure for extended periods of time to truly build into that space – the lotus position can bring you there.

 

Ok – it resonates. What’s next? Well, our guide to “The Lotus” position should give you all the information you need to know, from learning how to do it, to pros, cons and variations of the position.

How to do “The Lotus” Sex Position:

The penis or strap-on owner sits, the giver then seats themselves on top of them facing the receiver. You intertwine your legs, almost criss-crossed as seen in the graphic. The giver then slowly inserts the penis or strap-on, and allows penetration by focusing on a more intimate rocking/grinding motion.

What are the pros?

• This position is all about prioritizing intimate, passionate, slow sex.
• The position allows for physical closeness with your partner.
• Eye-gazing.
• If the giver leans back, they can initiate g-spot stimulation.
• Hands are free for stimulating erogenous zones; nipples, clitoris, etc.
• The different variations can allow you to explore anal play.

What are the cons?

• Can require a certain level of flexibility to maintain the position for extended periods of time.
• You may struggle to hold the weight of the other depending on how you’re seated, differences in body size, etc.

What are the variations?

• Instead of having your legs intertwined, the giver can instead have their legs draped over the receivers shoulders.
• Instead of being seated on a bed, this position can instead be done on a chair with feet touching the floor. This would allow you both to be supported from the ground-up.

 

How do you feel about tantric sex? Do you engage in it with your partner? How has it affected your relationship and your sex life? What other positions do you enjoy that allow you to be in the same space? Share with our community!

Let’s be real, we are all very obviously creatures of habit. We find ourselves repeating the same patterns, day after day with the same old routine… and you’re damn right that it feels good. The thing is, our brains desire to turn everything that we do into a routine to preserve energy, and while that’s great and all (thank you brain) – we don’t need to follow this narrative as our reality when it comes to the bedroom. Sure, you know which position is guaranteed to make you cum, but trying new sex positions can help keep things fresh and simultaneously help you discover new types of orgasms that completely change your perception on sex as a hole – deepening your connection with your partner outside the bounds of this reality.

 

Okay… you’re convinced. But where do you start? Try these 8 sex positions to ignite the pleasure and get down to business:

 

1. The “Amazon” Position

 

You might’ve been hearing about this one a lot lately, and yes, if you’re wondering – it is ALL the hype. This position is essentially missionary, reversed. Here’s how:

 

How to do it: The person with a penis or strap-on lays on their back, and the person with the vagina (or anus) straddles or squats above them, allowing penetration. Once the giver has climbed on top, they can start riding the receiver by bouncing and bobbing up and down, rather than focusing on grinding.

 

Why:

• Eye-to-eye contact.
• Power-play.
• Nipple play.
• Potential for mutual orgasm if the person on top is being stimulated to their preference (vaginal, clitoral, g-spot, nipple).
• Allows for deep penetration.
• The person on top can control the depth, speed, rhythm.

 

2. The “Jackhammer” Position

 

Well, this one might not be for the faint of heart, especially if you’ve never bent your body like this before.

 

How to do it: To get into this position, the receiver lays on their back, lifting their hips, raising their legs back and over their head. The giver then positions themselves over the receiver, in a squatting motion and penetrates them either vaginally or anally.

 

Why: 

• Give your partner a good look at your “goods”.
• Eye-contact depending on how you’re positioned.
• Deep vaginal or anal penetration.
• The giver can easily control the speed, depth and rhythm.
• The angle allows you to get all the “hard-to-reach” spots.

 

3. The “Lap Dance” Position

 

If you’re into that absolutely intoxicating, intimate, eye-gazing sex – this might be your cup of tea.

 

How to do it: To get into the Lap Dance position, the receiving partner with a penis or strap-on is seated on a chair, the giving partner climbs on top, straddling their partner, allowing penetration by moving their hips and back forth in a grinding motion.

 

Why: 

• Deep eye-to-eye contact.
• Intimacy with your partner.
• The ability to easily make out.
• Receiver’s hands are completely free for stimulation of erogenous areas; neck, head, face, nipples, clitoris, etc.

 

4. The “Flat Iron” Position

A classic, yet still a beast of a position. The Flat Iron is essentially doggy style, but with a twist.

 

How to do it: The receiver lies face down on their stomach, hiking up their pelvis. The giver climbs on top from the back, penetrating them vaginally or anally. The giver can support their weight by placing their hands on the receiver’s waist, back, or on the bed.

 

Why:

• Deep vaginal or anal penetration at varied intensities, depth and rhythm.
• G-spot and a-spot stimulation.
• This position is ideal for anyone concerned about their penis size.
• Can give attention to erogenous zones.
• Easy to make this more intimate if the giver occasionally leans closer into the receiver.

 

5. The “Cross Booty” Position

This one’s an interesting one – feedback says you either hate it or you love it with no in-between.

 

How to do it: This position is usually transitioned into from missionary, where the receiver lies flat on their back with their legs spread flat on the bed. The giver then slides their body over the receiver forming an X, and while keeping their pelvis in place, they thrust in up and down motions.

 

Why: 

• The perpendicular position can hit the vaginal walls differently than what you’re used to, giving you new sensations.
• Hands are free for stimulation of erogenous zones.

 

6. The “Chairman” Position

The chairman hits the spot, literally. Great for g-spot stimulation, and all the “hard-to-reach” areas.

 

How to do it: The receiver seats themselves on the edge of the bed, or a chair. The giver then positions themselves on top, facing away, squatting or bouncing up and down allowing vaginal or anal penetration.

 

Why:

• Allows for g-spot and clit stimulation.
• Deep anal and vaginal penetration.
• Can incorporate toys easily.
• Can be easily modified to experiment with different angles and movements.

 

7. The “Lotus” Position

Nah, because this ones for the books… Face-to-face, eye-gazing and being so deep in intimacy and passion is beyond underrated. There’s something about that intense level of physical closeness with your partner that is irreplaceable – it’s the ultimate way to feel connected.

 

How to do it: To get into this position, the person with a penis or strap-on will sit with their legs bent in front of them, the receiver will then climb on top, seating themselves facing their partner with their legs criss-crossed over

 

Why:

• Intimate, tantric, slow and passionate sex.
• Leaning back can provide g-spot and a-spot stimulation.
• Clit stimulation.
• Eye-gazing.

 

8. The “Pirates Bounty” Position

This… This one. This one will leave you seeing stars. An absolute fan favorite.

 

How to do it: The receiver lies flat, spreading their legs. The giver then positions themselves in between the receiver’s legs, pushing one to the side and the other placed over their shoulder. The giver can then penetrate vaginally or anally. For vulva-owners, this position is great for a-spot stimulation.

 

Why:

• Deep anal or vaginal penetration.
• G-spot and a-spot stimulation – opportunity for different types of orgasms.
• Allows for the use of toys to provide clit or nipple stimulation.
• Hands free for stimulation of erogenous zones.